Trying to Forgive Myself

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Who out there hasn’t faced the issue of forgiveness…and by that I mean forgiving others and even yourself?

There are two types of forgiveness in my opinion. One is the kind that is easy. That is when someone comes to you and ASKS for your forgiveness. They are sorry for what they have done and intend to never do it again. Then…there’s the forgiveness that has to come from you WITHOUT that apology.

So you may ask how you can forgive without their asking?

The definition of forgiveness is: Forgiveness is the renunciation or cessation of resentment, indignation or anger as a result of a perceived offence, disagreement, or mistake, or ceasing to demand. punishment or restitution (according to Wikipedia). Simply put…forgive so that YOU can have life and let GOD do the rest.

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You may have found yourself in situations that hover over your life like a dark cloud. Trying day after day to move the cloud, you go through innumerable ways to find the sun, but to no avail. Joy is a word from the past and peace is something which you can’t remember how it feels.

In order to move that cloud and find your life again…the one you were meant to live, forgiveness must take place. That does not mean you condone wrong doing or any violations of God’s word. Those who seek to force you into believing that forgiveness means “I’m okay, You’re okay” have missed the point of repentance. But what you can do is release the injustice over to the Almighty. When you do that…WOW what a relief!

Wellness of mind, body and spirit require forgiveness. Those times when you filled your mind with worry, control, and ill will must be forgiven by you! That moment when you indulged in food when you knew you shouldn’t..must be forgiven by you! And that time when fleshly desires took you to the world of darkness, must be forgiven by you!

YOU can become the changed person when good thoughts permeate your mind and control is given to God. Stop the negative thoughts (worry). Replace unhealthy food habits with good choices. Tell Satan to get out of your life because God is the Master of your world! Once you do that…KEEP YOUR COMMITMENTS! And even when you mess up…KEEP TRYING.

So what does that have to do with forgiving myself? It has to do with the ability to move on and find the JOY that God desires for me. Will trials still come my way? Oh yes! Because those trials have pushed me to become stronger and lean more on HIM.

Give yourself a makeover and discover a new you. The Joy of the Lord will be your strength! (Nehemiah 8:10)

All my best,

Julie
http://www.julieadamsjuiceplus.com

Just Call Me Picky!

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People are Picky and it drives me crazy! Picky about their clothes, picky about their food, picky about…well…lots of stuff.

However, sometimes being picky is a GOOD thing. Actually the definition of picky is “choosey” and with that…I would say…
CALL ME PICKY!

I am learning that in order to take care of my best self…I need to be picky. When it comes to food, I want to be choosey. I want to choose wholesome food, food that is good fuel for me, food that isn’t left behind in all the wrong places! (wink!) Too many times I have allowed others to decide for me in that I DIDN’T speak up for myself.

I am picky when it comes to what I allow into my life. That which is the opposite of Philippians 4:8…must be picked through and removed. Whether it is media, friends, or even family, if it won’t help you…be picky.

I am picky about my faith. I want what Jesus wants from me. Way too many ignore what Jesus desires from His followers. BE CHOOSEY… because any ‘ol faith won’t do!

Live your best life and be picky about it BECAUSE… you have only one life to live!

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All My Best….

Julie
http://www.julieadamsjuiceplus.com

 

 

 

 

Guard Your Heart

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When you think of “guard” what comes to your mind? There are “guard” dogs who protect and alert. There are “guards” at prisons who keep a watchful eye out for anything or anyone who would tend to interfere with the rules of the institution. The “guards” at Buckingham Palace are plentiful to enforce the privacy and protection of the Queen and her family.

What about YOUR heart? Who “guards” it? Who alerts you when your heart is under attack or being watched for prey?

In Proverbs 4:23 the scripture reads…”Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.” In other words, protect your heart because it is the beginning or starting place of what flows from you. Let’s look at that in 2 ways…physical and spiritual.

Your physical heart keeps the “flow” going doesn’t it? About 7,000 liters of blood are pumped throughout the body every day. Think about that the next time you pick up a “2 liter”! Now think about it when those vessels get constricted and the force of that 7,000 liters is harder and harder. That can be caused with blood pressure issues, thickening of the vessel walls like atherosclerosis, increase of weight, smoking or…get this…stress.

How can you “guard” your physical heart? Or do you even try? YOU control so much of what happens to your heart. How are you doing at being the “guard” for your heart? Are you letting anything in the “palace” because it looks good, tastes good or has become addictive? Time for some self-talk don’t you think?

Now let’s look at the spiritual heart. Your body is the temple of God…“Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own;” (I Cor. 6:19). Not my own? Really? Well then to whom do I belong? Because the precious price was paid for us, Jesus Christ, we are to devote our bodies, soul and spirit to the glory of His name, not the gratification of flesh.

YOU are the “guard” to a heart that was paid for by Jesus Christ! Honestly, I am ashamed that I have not always been the best guard for my heart physically and spiritually. Every time we allow negative thoughts in our head, we let our “guard” down. Every time we watch or listen to something that is full of curse words, sexual promiscuity, violence…we let our “guard” down. Every time a home is broken because of divorce, someone let their “guard” down.

Change is only a step away. Is it time for a “changing of the guards” in your life? You can guard your physical heart by taking care of yourself. YOU do it…no one else. YOU take the step.

Does your spiritual heart need a refreshing spring so that His will can flow from it? Make it happen. Be strong and courageous! Change the “guard” and enjoy the new you!

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Abundant Blessings,

Julie Adams, RN, BA, CLC
Wellness Consultant
http://www.julieadamsjuiceplus.com

Change of Heart

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We use it in our vocabulary all of the time. He/She had a change of heart which means they are no longer thinking or behaving the way they previously had. Most of the time, it is a good thing when we hear words like that.

So my question to you…Have you had a change of heart when it comes to your health? Believe me when I say that I have said this phrase many times only to fall back on my word and be back in my rut. And then I get upset with myself and pick up on those same destructive behaviors.

Changing your heart requires a deliberate change on how you think. I can say all day that I want to look like that, or eat that way, or make that impression on someone. BUT…until I have placed my head in gear…none of those things is going to to happen.

Have you been guilty of negative talk in your head? I know I have. And when I allow that negative thinking to find a place of comfort in my head, it turns out to be a poison that hinders me from being who I need to be as a child of God, a caregiver of myself and my family and my influence for good.

Yesterday was Valentine’s Day…a day of love and nice things. At this point in 2013, there have been 45 days given to allow all of us to make choices. Every day we decide to choose the better or the bitter. If you are at this point in 2013 and want to get out of bitter choices and change your heart…then DO IT! This is your life…your God-given life and no one else can force anything on you that you aren’t allowing.

Start with a simple step of putting goodness back in your foods with fruits and vegetables. And from there…you will be amazed at how that will make a difference…a simple choice from a change of heart.

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Abundant Blessings,
Julie Adams, RN, BA, CLC
http://www.julieadamsjuiceplus.com

Junk Food: The Unspeakable Addiction

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                                                                  Junk Food: The Unspeakable Addiction

                                                                                  By Wilson Adams

John Maxwell knows his stuff and his stuff is…leadership. His books on the subject have sold more than 18 million copies. John told me a couple years ago that everything he has learned about leadership, he learned from…the Bible. Surprised? John Maxwell doesn’t force his faith on anyone and neither do I. That said; here’s a second secret: everything I have learned about health and nutrition, is rooted (pun intended) in…the Bible.

For example, Behold, I have given you every plant yielding seed that is on the surface of the earth, and every tree which has fruit yielding seed; it shall be food for you (Genesis 1:29). And while God later approved of eating meat, Scripture advocates moderation.

                                                                             We Are What We Eat

Certainly no one in this age of information can take issue with that. The problem, however, isn’t information but motivation. We know but choose to look the other way. Consider—

  • 1 in 3 Americans live with cardiovascular disease (CDC)
  • 1 in 3 Americans are obese (AMA)
  • 1 in 3 women and 1 in 2 men will develop cancer (NCI)
  • By 2050, 1 in 3 adults (and children) will develop diabetes (CDC)
  • More than 25% of American children are on prescription drugs (WSJ)
  • By age 12, many of our children have developed the beginning stages of hardening of the arteries (Bogalusa Heart Study)
  • The U.S. healthcare expenditures are approaching $3 trillion per year (CMS.gov).

Even though we are the sickest people on the planet, we continue to whistle past the food bar while pretending everything is fine. But everything is not fine. We are sick and we are dying. Dr. David Katz, M.D. (Founding Director of Yale University Prevention Research Center and Editor of Childhood Obesity Journal) said, “This may be the first generation of children to have a shorter life expectancy than their parents.” Read that again. Indeed, we are eating ourselves to disease and death.

                                                                                Your Body is a Temple

That’s biblical, too (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). We are quick to teach the teens about drinking, drugs, smoking, etc. with the understanding that we are stewards over our bodies. Is it too much of a stretch to make the same application to our food choices? “You who teach another, do you not teach yourself” (Romans 2:21). It’s a valid question.

I am not a vegetarian. I am not the food police. I am not radical or extreme. However, I will say that having a surgeon open your chest for a heart by-pass is radical. And chemotherapy is radical. So are complications from diabetes, obesity, and other chronic health issues we face in record numbers. And while some illnesses are more hereditary than dietary, the medical research doesn’t lie. Pediatrician and author Dr. Bill Sears declared, “75% of all chronic disease is preventable.”  Are you kidding me? No.

                                                                              Gluttons for Punishment

We walk into a restaurant and are immediately asked if we want it “supersized?” Really?  Americans are infatuated (careful with that word!) with their “All-You-Can-Eat” food bars and indulge with a wink and a nod. Given the statistics, it’s not funny any more.

Let me explain two things. First, no one can become healthy for you. You must decide. And that decision takes place in your head long before it ever reaches your fork. And while you cannot stop the effects of physical aging as the body begins its demise, you can slow down the process by making the proactive decision to become healthier. Sadly, pharmaceutical companies have conditioned us to respond to health issues after the fact (they want you to be sick—it’s how they make $$$). Does it ever occur to us that we have it backwards? Remember this saying—“An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” It still is.

Second, while doctors and medicines are essential, there is only so much that either can do to treat symptoms that have accumulated over a lifetime of bad choices. We shake our heads at the nicotine addict who continues to smoke in spite of needing oxygen and then…we do the same thing with our food choices. The wise man said, “Put a knife to your throat if you are a man of great appetite” (Proverbs 23:2). Whoa!

This doesn’t have to be hard. I recommend (1) the 80/20 food rule (make good food choices 80% of the time—which allows for the occasional fun food), (2) drink more water (since the Creator made our bodies 70% H2O, we must replenish what it craves), (3) avoid the colas (I was present when Cleveland Brown quarterback Colt McCoy told high school athletes to get off the soft drinks. He’s right), (4) exercise thirty minutes per day, (5) eat more fruits and vegetables (after all, when God made man, He put him in a…garden!), and (6) take Juice Plus (whole food nutrition with 17 fruits, vegetables, and grains). BONUS: Because of its NSF certification, the Boston Red Sox have joined other professional athletes in recommending JP to their players. Do you think they know something?

                                                            Modern-Day Marlboro Men (and Women)

As an Americana humorist author (that’s fancy talk for someone infatuated with nostalgia), I love the idealism of the 50s and 60s. I remember nuclear bomb drills in grade school when we were told to crouch beneath our desks and cover our heads—as if that accomplished anything. Of course it was the same era in which the Marlboro Man made smoking glamorous (by the way, there were three different actors portraying the Marlboro Man and all three died of lung cancer). In other words, we were ignorant but we didn’t care. Fifty years later, when it comes to food choices, I’m not sure we’ve made much progress.

Have your life and health reached a turning point? There’s no better time to change than…now. Help with any addiction begins with an admission of a struggle. Pray about it. Seek guidance from those qualified to give it. You can eat your way to a healthier you and, in so doing, offer greater availability to the people around you. After all, the biblical admonition to “love your neighbor as yourself” begins with…loving you. And you are worth it!

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Wilson Adams lives in Murfreesboro, Tennessee and is an author of books on Americana Humor. In 2009 he co-authored “A Life Lost and Found—A Journey of Hope and Healing Through Tragedy.” He speaks across the country on how God can turn hardship into blessing. You may contact him at www.alifelostandfound.org

“Bless Your Heart”

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I’ve said this phrase many times…”Bless Your Heart.” You know it’s what you say when you don’t know what else to say! We wish someone else wellness in hopes their difficulties will be lessened.

With this being Heart Awareness Month…it is a good time to see how we can “bless” our hearts toward health. There are several risk factors toward heart disease. Do you or someone you know have any of these?

  • High Blood Pressure
  • High Cholesterol
  • Family History of Heart Attack or Stroke
  • Overweight
  • Smoking
  • Diabetes
  • Little or no exercise
  • 45 years old or older
  • Eats a standard American diet
  • Peripheral Artery Disease (PAD)

YOU have to take of YOU! Who else is your health care advocate? At the doctor’s office, hospital or with any medical situation, it is imperative that you are on board with what is happening in your life. I’ve been a nurse for over 30 years and I’ve seen it happen over and over…little to no investment in healthcare from people who rely totally on whatever they are told. BE PROACTIVE…NOT REACTIVE.

This one thing I know without a doubt, our American diets are killing us. Fast foods, the lack of fruits and vegetables and the idea that over the counter vitamins will take care of it all, are making for more prescription drugs and surgeries.

Do a  little research and you will find that more and more healthcare professionals are directing their patients toward God’s “Farm-acy.” HE has known all along what our bodies need. HE created them didn’t HE?

Get started today and “Bless Your Heart.” Your heart will thank you…one…beat…at…a…time!

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Abundant Blessings,

Julie Adams, RN, BA, CLC
Wellness Consultant

http://www.julieadamsjuiceplus.com